Community Life As Seen by One of the Young People

       After the reading of Mrs. Whitney's paper on the Inductive Communion of the
    Hopedale Community, a member of one of the old families born too late to have known
    Community life, exclaimed with deep conviction, "How dreary those days must have
    been!" The conviction, though natural from an up to date point of view, was not true of
    the time referred to.

      The members were men and women drawn together by a common interest in the
    great principles of liberal and practical Christianity at a time when church doctrines
    were narrow. In addition to the vital principles of ultimate salvation for all, temperance,
    non-resistance, etc., each one brought some fad of his own - belief in Spiritualism, or
    the vegetarian diet. Some were non-shavers, and all, I think, were non-smokers. The
    fads, which were almost as dear to the hearts of their owners as the principles, were
    often discussed in public, and the free play of the various natures, grave and gay,
    matter of fact and mischievously humorous, made these meetings a "continuous
    performance" of vast entertainment. The argument was earnest of either side, and
    usually closed by each with the same emphatic utterance, "So it seems to me and I
    cannot see it otherwise!" Neither party convinced the other, but the war of words
    afforded a certain relief to strenuous natures who, as good non-resistants could
    indulge in no other form of warfare.

      The small band of vegetarians were firm in the faith and provided much amusement
    for those who had no scruples against a meat diet.

      A wag among the latter having discovered that Mr. Asaph Spaulding, one of the most
    voluable defenders of vegetarianism had fallen from grace by partaking of codfish
    charged him with it in open meeting. Mr. Spaulding being for once at a loss for words,
    his wife came to the rescue, exclaiming, "Asaph wanted a codfish and I got him one!"

       On another occasion a young man who wished to deal fairly by both sides of the
    question, remarked that one's occupation should be considered in the matter of diet,
    and that the performance of manual labor required meat.

      To shave or not to shave was a burning question. I remember a non-shaver who,
    having worked his fiery way to the climax exclaimed, "I have not shaved for five years,
    and I never will shave again!" Instantly the quiet voice of Mr. Swasey answered, "You
    may get shaved though."

      We young people had great enjoyment in what we called music, and at least one
    evening of the week was devoted to singing under the direction of Mr. W.W. Cook, or
    Mr. Hatch, and our unskilled performances gave great pleasure at the frequent picnics
    and festivals.

       We were especially happy in our school under the inspiring teaching of Miss Abbie
    Ballou, afterwards Mrs. William S. Heywood. Her methods were in advance of those in
    use at that day, and the excellence of the little Hopedale district school attracted the
    attention of William Lloyd Garrison, C.F. Hovey and Samuel May who each sent sons to
    receive the benefit of Mrs. Heywood's instruction. All who came under her influence in
    the old school house must feel that their lives had a fortunate beginning.

      We children shared the feeling of our parents that we were a chosen band, safely
    sheltered from the wicked world. Milford, our nearest point of contact, was as remote as
    Boston seems to-day, and was perhaps more seldom visited. It was a long way off
    around by the road, and the short cut lay through woods and over rocky pastures. Mr.
    Bailey brought the mail over every evening by the latter route. I lived where I could see
    him emerge from the woods, on what is now Dutcher Street, and when the night was
    wild, he seemed to my fancy a veritable hero.

      Community life was for children a simple and happy one. But later when it became
    necessary to take a practical view of things and lower our standards to those of the
    ordinary business village, the charm dissolved - life became commonplace, and
    glimpses of the here-to-fore "wicked world" were eagerly sought by the young people.
    Sarah E. Bradbury, Arlington, Massachusetts, Hopedale Reminiscences.

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